What Men Really Want, By Stacey Pressman

I can't tell you how many times I've heard it:

Stacey, you're young, attractive, you've got a great job, you've got so much going for you and you're a girl who knows and loves sports."


Now here's the clincher:


"I can't believe you, of all people, don't have a boyfriend!"


This observation is enough to send any 20-something single female into a quarterlife crisis. But before I seek out Dr. Phil, or Gloria Steinem-ize the fact that I don't need a man..............

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In fact, when a man realizes that a woman does know sports -- especially football -- she has somehow encroached on his masculinity. She has entered the neutral zone and made illegal contact with his manhood.


What men really mean when they say, "I like a chick who's into sports," is that they like a "chick" who will tolerate their own sports watching.


Oh yeah, and if you can make a tasty bowl of guacamole on Sunday, you're a goddess. And of course, looking cute in that fitted No. 55 Junior Seau jersey a la Bachelorette Trista Rehn, well that's an added ... uh, bonus.


Men couldn't care less if the objects of their affection can actually tell the difference between a flea flicker and a reverse, differentiate between a blitz and a dog, or identify the soft spot in a zone defense. In fact, when and if they can, it scares the crap out of them.

WELL I LIKE A CHICK WHO CAN BE MY BONNIE.

A RIDE DIE TYPE OF CHICK. NOTHING IN BETWEEN.

Men want to be treated the way us woman what to be treated. They want respect, security,love and affection. What I want in a man is the same and they dont want someone to be possessive over them. Like we dont, they dont want to be controlled. So as humans we need to step back and realize that we all want the same out of a relationship and it is a give take thing. That is why relationships fall apart so fast because we dont take the time to get to know the other person.

This post has been edited by peggycauley on Aug 25 2008, 12:47 PM

That sounds good but to Kings can not live in the same Castle and divide the kingdom into 50/50 halves..... There must be one King who rules over all things... .