A Woman In Love., Let's See It My Way....
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A Woman In Love., Let's See It My Way....| shephardfamilyenterprise |
 Posted: Nov 14 2006, 10:57 AM
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Okay, my Egyptian Queens. Now, let me describe to you what a woman in love is like on my side of town and then a man. The examples are based on how I was turned into a man I am by the game.
First, most men grow into what they are based on what women they were exposed to during their life time. For example, boys who mother’s protected them from working too hard which is imposed on that child by a hard working man; This over-protected boy will grow up thinking a woman will always be there to save him, this is why some brothers get comfortable while with a woman who falls in love with him; He feels as if this woman loves him like his mama. Then the hard working man who was raised to respect nothing but the out come of money will put women on the back burner until he have achieved what is necessary to get her attention full-time; Most women exposed to this type of brother reverse the table on him by staying at home and enjoying the fruits of her so-called labor, this causes the brother to feel that he is married to her and expect her to act as if she is his wife. Women can be confusing and most of them are. Most boys never get a man’s perspective of how to be a man, because, there are few of us around to instill the type of discipline necessary to make him what he should be. Once he becomes what he should be as a man most women can’t deal with him because a strong man will restructure his kingdom the way he sees fit and not based on what a woman sees. Now, this is the conflict. A woman usually brain-wash a young under knowledgeable brother into thinking that to be a man he must consider what a woman thinks…. NOT!!!!!! If he got his stuff together, financially, academically, and physically then when he meet that woman there is only one thing that can be shown to him to gain his attention……. What she can do for him to keep himself focused on her while he is not in her presence. Men should not need to depend on a woman for anything other than companionship, he should be set concerning all other areas. If he can not do it himself and get it then he should not have it, anything else is just extra things for him to play with. I’m not saying that a woman shouldn’t help her man, some men need that, but don’t complain if your efforts out-weigh your results. Understand this, if you want to be part of his world you have to be part of his ideas. This means, what he consider a woman is, what a woman mean in his life, what he has accomplished to that date in his life, the out-come of self imposed goals leading up to the point where he met you, and what he is willing to do in the community a (pick up paper around the neighborhood whether or not he put it there) and if he stands tall along with other men (successful men) who thinks as he does and support a man’s cause even if it conflicts with what most women thinks. Together with this will he be a true man as I see it. Most women do not and will not support this idea due to the strict nature of the out-come, most women do not and will not allow their sons to be aggressively groomed in this fashion because of the tenderness of woman’s heart for that boy child. |
   
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